Imagine that you’re at a coffee shop like Starbucks and a woman walks up to order her coffee at the same time as you.

Instead of just letting her in front like a standard nice guy would, you can say the following in a playful way, easy-going way: Her: [Looks at you to work out whether or not you’re going to let her go first]. You: [Smile and say in a relaxed manner] Okay, nevermind the 3 coffees.

They may act like they are, but statistically speaking, most women have self-esteem issues (e.g.

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In other words, you are pretending to be arrogant and that is what women find funny, exciting and enjoyable.

Being very cocky and arrogant for real is not something that most people can vibe with, which is why most women will close off to you and even reject you if you’re approach is too cocky.

Make her feel good emotions and then move in for a kiss.

When that happens, seduce her some more with your words and vibe and then pull her back for sex.

You: Alright, you can go in front…as long as you buy me 3 café lattes and a piece of that chocolate cake there… Just one coffee, a piece of chocolate cake and a cookie. You: [Smile] Just kidding [and then say like a good guy/gentleman] …go ahead, you go first. This is attractive to women because in that moment, you are using your confidence, masculinity and social intelligence to slightly dominate her.

You are “leading the dance” so to speak and that is exactly what women want to experience.

So, I began to experiment with different styles of cocky and funny until I eventually worked out the right way to do it.

The right balance you need to achieve between cocky and funny is not so much about using certain percentage of cocky and a certain percentage of funny (e.g. The right balance is in understanding that you need to be playfully arrogant, rather than being arrogantly cocky.

It’s nice that we men get rewarded for believing in ourselves because that is really easy to do. This is a much cooler, effective way of using the outdated cocky and funny approach.