Others give into their attractions to other women, leading to emotional and/or physical affairs.

If your husband has lost interest in sex, and there does not seem to be a significant emotional or physical explanation, he may have fallen into one of these snares.

Donalyn: As you can see, there are a whole lot of issues that may need to be sorted through to get to the root of the problem.

Donalyn: So in reality, he has as much need for sexuality as ever; he is just getting those needs met elsewhere. Pornographic movies and books, phone services, and strip clubs are rampant.

Some men find release in voyeurism: scoping women out and fantasizing about them later.

Tell him that you are wondering if there is something wrong with you that is causing him not to want you.

Be vulnerable and let him see what you are feeling – whether that is your insecurity, feeling unfeminine or even ugly.For a man, sexual performance is very much tied to ego, so if he is not feeling good about himself it will definitely show up in his approach to sexual intimacy with his wife.Donalyn: As women, we know that our sexual appetite is diminished when we do not feel connected to our husbands, or if there is unresolved anger between us.Dave: Of course, there are all sorts of physical issues that could be at play here too.If your husband has had any struggles with erectile dysfunction, that is likely a huge contributing factor.You need to have an honest talk with your husband, but do it in love.