Speaking of games, I actually have a guy who has been texting me for four months and we have never met. I’m beginning to think it has become a game to him to see how hard to get I really am. I will retire my online dating jersey before I will go out with him.Guys, this is a tough one and I have had a lot of time and experience to think about it.If any of you are single dads, then you know that priorities shift when you have children.

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As a result, I have—unconsciously or unintentionally—taken him/it for granted. It happened to me recently and I can laugh about it now, but at the time I was freaked out, because he had been very consistent for the first month, then the curveball.

He knew what he was doing and I have to give him props for playing the game.

So by playing hard to get, I lost a guy I was really into.

I share that information in my last tip, so that maybe you won’t make the same mistake, you’ll communicate better and know when to walk away or try to make it work.

He let me know he saw me on there a few times and I made a few snarky remarks about him always being on there.

This became an issue for us both and instead of being the bigger person and communicating with him, I played games and hard to get, intentionally logging onto the site and leaving it open so he would see me on there. Well, as most of you have guessed, my games backfired and he told me he did not want to date a woman who was always online seeking other men.

You may have spent a romantic weekend in Napa with a woman, then caught her online again on Monday morning. She may genuinely want to date around and keep her options open at this time.

She may be newly divorced or fresh out of a relationship and not looking to date just one guy.

This does not mean she is not into you, it simply means the timing is off.

You may perceive her as playing hard to get, while she actually is impossible to get we were both still playing on that dating site daily.

I cannot tell you how many men I have clicked with via email online dating, to have them ask for my number.